So, you’ve met ‘the one’ and you don’t look like a nincompoop. Bravo! You’re also giving off a confident air. Allow her to inhale this alluring aroma for a moment; it will help cast her under your spell. Be mindful of your body language too; have the confidence to look into her eyes, point your body towards hers, keep your back straight and your shoulders back. You are a man, so stand tall and act like one.
Now you need to strike up a conversation. There’s no pressure but if you can, this is the time to be witty. Not like when you’re with your friends at the local drinking tavern, though. Be funny, in a good way – a howling laugh is the orgasm people are allowed to have in public. And for goodness sake, no chat up lines… unless you want to be set adrift as the cheesy man she will laugh with her friends about.
Compliments, on the other hand, are just the ticket. Everybody loves to be told something nice. She will remember you for it and feel happy – this is your aim.
While you’re talking to her, oil the wheels of conversation by asking about her. She will like this very much. In fact, she may like you very much simply for this reason. Show genuine interest, find out what she likes and doesn’t like, passions and hobbies. Earn bonus points at future encounters by referring to the nuggets of information she imparted and she’ll think you’re the bee’s knees for remembering.
While you engage in the flow of witty conversation, touch her. Of course, don’t pinch her bottom at this juncture (if you play your cards right, you’ll have plenty of time in the future for grasping the restricted areas). Stick to the safe bits such as her back or her arm. Studying how she reacts to this ‘safe’ touching will reveal how successful you are at wooing her. If she squirms, you may have to cut your losses. But if she doesn’t resist, and even better, if she reciprocates the touching, she may be succumbing to your charms.
The best relationships develop from friendships so there’s no need to be gung-ho. If you are feeling lucky, though, press her hand with your digits or ask for hers. If she rebukes you, don’t be disheartened. There are plenty more fish in the sea. Just be careful in those waders. Last time, you had to be rescued by this lifeboat of an article.